I am VERY good at Avoiding things – even when they are inevitable. Difficult conversations. Inevitable conflict. I can skirt and edge. I can soften out of the scene. I can disappear. I can distract. I can be so nice nothing can get through the nice onslaught.
But I have discovered that I’m not alone in this. Even the most confrontational people will avoid difficult conversations of a type. We all have to learn how to address this sort of thing, I guess.