We had a long hard discussion last night. Hours and hours of sorting through, figuring it out, working it out. Mostly, we managed without too much heat or anger. But I notice that one of the things that gets me hottest is a misattribution of what I said. Even if the sense is similar, I will get touchy if I am misquoted. I want my words, not those! Those words aren’t the ones I used! They’re not what I meant!