The Hamlet Project

Can Hamlet command Ophelia to talk with him?
Is this a royal thing? You can make girls you like come talk with you? Score.
If that’s the case, though –
How in the world is a royal subject supposed to refuse him?
Is what’s happening here a raise in status for Ophelia? When she refuses his letters, shuts her door on him,
Is she breaking royal command in addition to her faith?
Who’s got the lockdown on Danish Royal Protocol?